Child Custody, Law Guardians, Divorce Finances & Divorce Attorneys

From the Author

In my manual I go into a good amount of detail that outlines and explains my situations and experiences.

For now I will tell you that I am a 36 year old, divorced, white male with 3 boys. Nicholas is 13, Tyler is 10 and Jacob is 8. I agreed to joint custody with their mother as residential parent. Despite everything I know and believed in I trusted my attorney. I hired him to work for me and I let him convince me that he was looking out for me. He never explained shared custody. I wonder if he knows what it is?

The bottom line is that I watched the court take my children away from me. Sure I was given visitation but when did I stop being their father? Why is it that I was a full time father involved in every part of my children's lives but, now I am given only 2 days and a total of 7 hours a week to spend with and raise my children?

Is it because the case was too complicated for my attorney and he wasn't man enough to admit it? Is it because he couldn't stand up to the pressure from the other side? He had dollar signs in his eyes and forgot about his client. He took the easy way out and convinced me to settle.

Don't let this happen to you. Don't let everyone else decide what's best for you. Learn how you can prepare an offensive strategy and stick to your game plan. My personal experience and numerous interviews taught me that the same mistakes were being made over and over by different attorney's. These are the same attorneys that "specialize" in divorce. Don't look back and say I wish I would have… or I wish I had known! Know now! And let me help you.